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What Do You Think?
Can you solve problems easily? Can you learn new things
efficiently? Can you increase your brain power? Whatever
you think and feel about these questions, those thoughts
and feelings will have an effect on your brain function,
because brain power and psychology are intimately
connected.
Expectation
Checkmate in four moves, the book said, so I looked
until I found it. I love chess puzzles, and I used to
think those elegant solutions were not often possible in
real games. Then it occurred to me that they probably
are there, but that without the expectation of finding
them, I settled for less worthy moves. I find the
elegant ones more often now.
A man I know spent his childhood with wealthy kids and
their families. Is it coincidence that he now makes more
money than most of us? Did his rich friends give him
money? Did they help him in business? No, no, and no. He
simply feels that a certain level of income is normal,
and his mind will always push him towards that level.
Are you beginning to see how expectation and belief can
expand or limit not only your mind, but your life? So
how do you apply this to increasing your brain power?
What Can You Do?
I'll never say that anything is possible, but what you
think you can do certainly affects what you accomplish.
If you think you can increase your brain power, you are
far more likely to do what is necessary to get that
result. Do you think you can? Do you think you are
intelligent? If not, how do you change your outlook?
Don't worry. I'm not going to tell you to stand in front
of a mirror making positive affirmations. There is an
easier way.
Evidence Is More Powerful Than Affirmation
What you look for, you find, and this changes your mind.
Want to prove this to yourself? Watch for polite drivers
for a few days, making a mental note to yourself each
time you see one. Focus just on the polite ones,
ignoring the rest. It will change your experience of
driving in a positive way. Then watch for rude drivers
for a few days, and you'll begin to see them all over.
If you actually do the exercise above, you'll get the
point. You experience the world not just according to
what is there, but even more according to what you pay
attention to. Now, to apply this to your thinking
process:
Find your successes. Notice when you learn something
new. Write it down even. Point out your problem-solving
successes to yourself, and you'll have more of them.
When you are thinking clearly and effectively, tell
yourself, "Look at that brain go!"
Telling yourself you are intelligent may help, but
evidence is more convincing than affirmation. So if you
are working to improve your mind, just watch, and you
will find examples of progress, however large or small.
Focus on these, and remember them. You can start doing
this right now.
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